Never had a girlfriend because I'm EXTREMLY shy lol

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  1. Aldoria
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    I don't know why but I am so so shy and that's really annoying
    I'm still young so I'm sure it will come later
    that make me sad sometimes I need love you know x)
    every time I talked to girls before high school was when they came to me but I never start the conversation you know and in those moments I blush like really hard
    any advice ? (to be not shy anymore, that's sad)
     
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  3. LittleFlame

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    fake confidence 'til you gain confidence, if you want to change something about yourself you gotta put the work in
     
  4. Aldoria
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    it's hard
    i'm less shy than before but still hard
     
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    you are 15.
    what? you are worried because you didn't had yet a threesome with 2 orgies and multiple weddings?
     
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    that's not what I mean
     
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    Treat women like they're just regular people, not a scary different breed of human on a pedestal. Sounds like being more sociable with them is the first step. If a girl comes up to you, make simple talk with them, be interested in what they do, what they like. Everyone loves to talk about themselves.

    Also learn that sometimes, failure is an unavoidable result. You're new to it, so you might make awkward mistakes. That's fine. Just keep learning.
     
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    and i mean to be patient and don't worry about it, the more you worry the worse you make it
    just worry about the school. play some vidya games in ya free time, one day you will meet a girl or a rich dude whatever is your preference will be cool and you will be fine
     
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    Don't ask for advice from anyone but a professional. People think they're above therapy. Newsflash, get therapy, get better with girls. EVERYONE can benefit from therapy. Try to find out what the hell is wrong with you (there's something wrong with us all.)
     
  10. linuxares

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    Best tip I can give, stop chasing. You're just 15...
     
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    welp i'm shy with people I don't know but when I become friend with them I feel really good and every problems are gone

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    tbh I don't even care to have a gf the general problem is just that it's hard for me to talk to people
    got tons of friends because they come to me but I don't feel good about that

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    and I'm sure you think I'm a very young person because I'm 15 and you're right, I totally understand.
    you can talk to me like if I was an adult. sometimes it just feel weird when people talk to me like if I was 10.
    I don't know if I'm clear but for my age I am very mature when I have to be.
     
  12. LittleFlame

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    spoken like literally every other 15 year old ever.

    Don't worry so much about getting a girlfriend or anything dude, it's not all it's cracked up to be and you're seriously building it up too much for yourself in turn making you more shy because your picture of women is all out of wack.
    like others said: just be yourself, but be a better version of yourself as much as you can without forcing it, feign a little confidence, hit on someone even if it feels awkward.
    You got this brother
     
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    Now you see why I have a bf .
     
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    i do my best to write in english of course I know what I write can be confusing (it is for myself)
    I know people would think that too ^^
     
  15. Xyphoseos

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    Don't worry dude, I get my first gilrfriend this year, the 11th june and i'm 17
     
  16. LittleFlame

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    Man it's not even fair if you're the more confident type, Confidence is fucking attractive as shit
     
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    You could get "Just Monika" (She is omnipotent you know and full of intellect) :ninja:
     
  18. swabbo

    swabbo Wot u doin readin dis m8?

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    I'm 23 and can't talk to most people, especially women due to lack of confidence, anxiety issues, depression caused by anxiety. not a good place to be in.
     
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    thank you
     
  20. swabbo

    swabbo Wot u doin readin dis m8?

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    Hope you overcome your confidence though buddy :)
     
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  21. DeoNaught

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    Don't worry lul, It don't matter, Looking for Significant one is a horrible Idea, you'll find someone that you force yourself to love, because you want to love someone, when in reality, you are playing yourself. Looking for a girlfriend/Boyfriend is kinda silly, find people, friends, and if those friends turn into something from there, Continue your relationship with that person, and then you have a girlfriend/boyfriend.

    look for friends, not girlfriends, and don't worry about it, you're only 15 lul, I'm 16, I Don't have have a girlfriend, it's not the end of the world ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ It's better to look for worthwhile friends, than a relationship that will only last a year.

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    Damn, you an older me from the future or something?
     
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